Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Introduction

 TheCUBBYskinnygirl.com 

Hello Gov-nah!

Hi all!!!! So TheCUBBYskinnygirl.com is all about being a skinny girl trapped in a chubby girls body . . . . I KNOW!!  It sounds awful but at one point in my life I was considered "skinny" by society standards.  OHHHHH society standards, aren't they FABULOUS :)  However, even when I was down to 120 lbs, I wasn't healthy OR happy!!!  I would skip meals (or fill my tummy with "fake food"), work out like a mad woman and have my image control my life just so I could fit into a bikini and feel confident.  Well now I believe in KIARA standards . . . like feeling healthy, being comfortable in my own skin, looking in the mirror and having the person staring back at me confident, happy and beautiful.  Im stick of feeling unhealthy, unhappy and miserable in my "chubby" body and for people referring to me as "having such a pretty face" or "big boned" . . . . People my bones aren't BIG lol they are the same size as yours!!!! So refrain, if you could, from saying that to people who are overweight . . . you don't know what that can do to someone's confidence!! 


BEFORE!!  120 LBS
Okay enough with me blabbering away (BLAB BLAB BLAB) . . . . I chose to make this blog to inspire people to make a change . . . . yes CHANGE!!!!!  Like having me get off my butt, go to the gym and move a little.  I am a hairstylist and makeup artist by profession (www.kiaramooneyhmua.com) and if you are one as well, you know how hectic a salon can get sometimes.  But lets face it, everyone is busy & hectic (work, kids, parents, relationships), everyone makes excuses ("well today I have this & that to do" or "tomorrow I will definitely go to the gym") and everyone needs a little bit of ME time . . . so why not change our ways together :)

NOW!!  NOT 120 LBS hahahah

This lovely take on life/attitude happened after a conversation I had with one of my close friends and wardrobe stylist in Boston & NYC, Victoria Vegas.  We were discussing my life (how fun) and where I currently stand.  I has just lost my grandmother this past January, I broke up with my boyfriend of roughly 6 years and I just recently changed salons roughly 6 months ago.  So need I say more where my emotional state was . . . . but don't feel pity for me because 2 out of the 3 situations I CHOSE.  I wanted to have positivity in my life, happiness, control of my future and most of all REDUCE the negativity!!!  Holy mole-y does that SHIT spread like wild fire!!! Victoria's take was "Listen Kiara", she says that a lot ;) "Listen Kiara, I am soo0o0o0o happy for you!  Girl you are ready to start your new life!!!  You have so much going for you in your career, you are newly single and now it's your time to focus on YOU!!  Listen you don't eat meat . . . you eat healthy you just need to get your butt to the gym more often and eat on a regular schedule."  She's 100% correct . . . it's not rocket science but it makes complete sense!

So, once again, this blog will be about my journey and yours too!  I want everyone to post comments, send me their accomplishment & setbacks (but how they learned from it), their aspirations, their life journey.  We are all humans, it's okay to mess up but its what we do with the information that we acquire at the moment that counts.  CHANGE!  That is key here; mentally, physically & spiritually <3

2 comments:

  1. I feel the same, I also struggled my whole life to make others love me more. WTH is that. THis is who I am dig it or don't.
    I am healthy and happy.

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