Monday, April 8, 2013

Cocktails! Are They Wasted Calories?

Who Doesn't Love A Cocktail? How Does It Effect Dieting?

     After a long day at work, at a special occasion or out on the town, fabulous drinks are apart of every adult life. My favorite is when we pair our delicious drinks with FOOD!!  As if there's not enough calories and sugar in the drinks themselves but then we add more with food. Lets face it, drinking, socilizing and being merry is apart of our lives whether its a daily occurrence or an affair on the weekends. This leads me to think, how do we drink and watch our calorie intake without being antisocial and a party pooper??  I was attending the opening at Boston Chops this past Tuesday night ( I was blessed enough to do the hair for the 3 models that were working the party for Thom Solo Shoes Thom Solo Shoes Facebook Page) and the free cocktails, oysters and shrimp cocktail started flowing. My go-to drink when I go out is a cosmopolitan . . . my mother always ordered them and said how delicious they where so naturally when I starting going out cosmo's were my drink of choice. One of the bartenders at the party made the best Cosmo I have ever had!!!  A delicious blend of Controu, Grey Goose and cran . . . aka Cosmo heaven!  I was then hit with the decision . .  do I drink or eat my calories?  Am I alone people??  Does this cross your mind as well??? So once again, I did the balancing act; 2 cosmos, 5 oysters and 3 shrimp cocktail.
     At parties, we tend to go though each course overeating and by the time you get to desert you are over the top stuffed!  How can we break this cycle?  I don't know about you but I need to remove myself from the appetizer table, move food away from in front of me or use smaller plates.  I have to say the smaller plate trick has helped me in many ways. My theory is: the larger the plate the more food I pile onto it so if I use an appetizer plate for my regular meal, I fill my plate will less food and thus eat less. Ta da! That's it . . . right?!?!? NOT! You also have to refrain from seconds and thirds hahahah. I find myself (coming from an Italian family) always haunted by HUGE portions, seconds & thirds and always having every family function around food. My grandmother would fill my plate with seconds before I even finished my firsts!  I'm not making excuses or blaming anyone for my overheating habits BUT I feel that our upbringing really shapes our future eating habits. So lets break the cycle and STOP OVEREATING!!
     Easier said then done and its a daily struggle for me but I'm trying my hardest and taking baby steps. We are human and when we adjust our eating habits abruptly you are setting yourself up for failure. Now I'm not saying that it may work for some but when we start cutting food out of our diet we get in the "I can't have this" mentality. It's not that you can't have it because you CAN but maybe we should start the "I CAN have this but I DON'T WANT IT" mentality. We need to start viewing food differently. I am a carbohydrate lady all the way! Pasta, love it, bread bring it on baby and this is what I started filling my day up with because it was easy to grab and go.  I still eat carbs (because if I ever told myself that I couldn't eat them my "diet" would be over in a day) but they are not the focus of my diet.  If I know I'm going to a party (and actually have time to eat before) I want to start implementing a salad before I leave. This way I will be able to drink without getting too tipsy and eat without overstuffing myself. I also find it hard to actually eat a variety at parties because I'm a pescetarian ( someone who is similar to a vegetarian but incorporates fish into their diet). Usually I fill up on dips, crackers, bread, pasta and other carbs because I know that meat didn't magically appear into the dish (I swear people in my life are always trying to get me to start to eat meat again) or that's what is only available at the moment. I don't by any means expect someone hoisting a party to go out of their way for me and cook a dish just for me (even though my Auntie Paula is fabulous at this ;) ) but this is where I run into the issue of variety. So next time I go to a party I'm going to try and eat a salad before I go and maybe some tuna and lots of added veggies. I can't tell you how much I love tuna!!!!  I add tons of veggies to it to give it that added crunch and substitute mayo for horseradish mustard. Below I provided my recipie for my favorite tuna

Tuna Recipie
1 can of torno tuna (Italian tuna/tuna in oil)
2 cans of tuna (drained)
1 stock of celery finely chopped
1 stock of carrots finely chopped
1/2 Tomateo finely chopped (without seeds)
1/2 can of corn
1 lemon
1 tablespoon of dill
2 tablespoons of horseradish mustard

1. Drain regular tuna and combine torno tuna into a bowl, break up tuna into small pieces
2. Add all veggies
3. Squeeze lemon into bowl, add mustard and dill
4. Mix together

The mixture is the best after one day and when it sits overnight. I just love the tang of the mustard and the crispness of the lemon.  The veggies are a great way to add a crunch to the mixture and you can enjoy it in a sandwich or over a salad. I love it so much I just eat it out of my container!!!!  If you have any recipes that you would like to share please do so in the comment section below.  Try the smaller plate trick, I promise it will work and you will start implementing it at parties. Have fun ladies and feel fabulous!! Until next time . . . .

Monday, April 1, 2013

Is Cheating REALLY That Bad?

Is Cheating REALLY That Bad?

Day 5-8

     The way I look at it is cheating is never a good thing . . . on a test . . . a spouse . . . and especially on a diet!!  Easter Sunday just passed and my family and I went to the Danvers Port Yacht Club for brunch this year. Usually we stay in or visit one or more of my family members mainly because of my grandma's medical situation but this year we chose to go out and celebrate.  DPYC put on such a delicious brunch with roughly 5 stations; breakfast food, homemade pasta stations, 2 carving stations and a dessert station.  I'm not going to lie to you, I was very nervous going there because I wasn't sure if I was able to control my cravings!  I mean the delicious food was right in front of my eyes . . . pretty much surrounding my table!!  My goal going in was this: no dinner rolls (which are my downfall), everything in moderation (as an Italian we don't really understand that phrase), if I chose to have something "bad" I would only have that one guilty pleasure, get a HUGE plate of salad (which was every so conveniently near the pasta station) and lastly, every time I filled my plate I required fruit and veggies to account for 75% of my plate.
     Round one *ding* *ding* . . . . My first plate consisted of one spoon full of eggs (I usually am not a huge fan of but it was the "healthiest" option at the time and it offered protein), one spoon full of potatoes and 1/2 my plate of strawberries (which were conveniently placed next to the chocolate fountain).  Round 2 . . . . HUGE plate of greek salad and more berries (they were really delicious and fresh) and Round 3 . . . a few more strawberries (if I had anymore I would have probably turned into one) and a small portion of fettuccine alfredo (yes I know not the best option and there lys the CHEATING PART) Overall, my portions where 1/3 of what I would have eaten but I took my time, filled up of salad and fruits and even sampled a little pasta!  I was amazed that my father even noticed (he usually doesn't notice what I eat but commented that my portions were small and on the healthier side) how I was "controlling" what I put in front of me.
     Looking back at all the "rounds" (sounds awful doesn't it!!) it was my first holiday that I didn't feel stuffed, bloated or even "fat" (dreaded word).  For dessert I chose a square of rice crispy treat (oops cheated again, wait I'm on a "diet" right??!?!?) covered in chocolate from that fountain screaming my name.  As I ate it all I could think of was OMG! Im eating something filled with sugar, fat and chemicals . . . bad bad BAD!!  Then I thought, Kiara your beating yourself up over ONE FRIGGIN' RICE CRISPY TREAT!!!  Stop that negative thinking!!!  YES the stupid treat was not the best option. I just reminded myself that I'm in control of my body, my thoughts and what I eat.  I am human!  This is where I got to thinking . . . is cheating apart of "dieting", a "way of life" or what we tell ourselves to fell better about that one rice crispy treat . . . . . . I have come to the conclusion that some women tend to make excuses for their eating habits.  When I attended +Weight Watchers  (roughly a millions times hahahah) if the women gained weight they used the following: "Oh I have my period", "I'm up because I just ate carbs last night and I haven't digested them yet", "Well I had one bad food so it all went to hell this week" and my favorite was "Oh I'm up because I didn't use the same scale from last time I weighted in".  Excuses are like assholes, everyone has one! You have gained weight because you didn't follow the program, ate too much and now your making excuses for why you weight more now then you did last week!  Sometimes I used to think to myself, well I had a banana for breakfast, salad for lunch so it's okay if I go out to the Cheesecake Factory have one of their pasta dishes (and of course bread).  NO!!! It's NOT okay hahahah I just UNDID everything that I worked at the whole day!!  So something that I need to work on is my thought process.  Am I the only one here ladies?? Even gentlemen???  Does this happen to you???
     Cheating . . . is this a good way of thinking or will this just act like weed . . . a gateway "drug".  Perfection is not key here but the achievement of healthy eating is.  Feeling better about yourself, looking in the mirror and seeing someone you LOVE instead of picking out all your flaws.  I guess you might need an attitude adjustment as well as a eating healthy.  When I was at my thinest, I would look in the mirror and STILL find something I didn't like about myself.  I was discussing this with one of my friends at a friends birthday party this past Saturday.  It doesn't matter how thin I got, my attitude needed to change. It's not okay to skip meals (I see my friends do this on a daily basis), it's not okay to eat "filler" foods (similar to "healthy" microwave dinners) and most of all it's not okay to be negative.  So lets get to it ladies!!!  Find a balance, healthy eating and STOP being hard on ourselves!!  BE POSITIVE, Be happy and be-YOU-tiful ;)
   

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Juice the SHIT Out of Your Food!

Juice The SHIT Out of Your Food!

Why I decided to juice . . . DAY 2-4


Looking beautiful is one thing but feeling it is another.  I have numerous times sat at the dinner table with that "stuffed" feeling and let me tell you, I don't feel beautiful.  Who wants to sit at the table, especially if your out at a restaurant, feeling bloated, having your pants super tight and not wanting to move because those buttons on your jeans are ready to burst.

YES!!!  I mean what I say and I say what I mean . . . . Juicing is all about getting nutrients that you need into that beautiful body of yours.  I love to throw just about anything into my juicer like kale, apples, lemons, carrots, celery, strawberries, blueberries and much more.  At first, I was very skeptical about this process ESPECIALLY when I saw the end result (a.k.a the gross color that the juice mixed to).  However, I realized that not everything needs to go in there!! So I included below some of my favorite drink recipes:

FALL IN A GLASS (tastes like a delicious apple pie & can be used as a desert drink)

2 red apples
dash of cinnamon

SUMMER BREEZE (makes me want to go to the beach)

1 orange
10 strawberries
1/4 pineapple

GREEN MACHINE (chuck full of goodies)

1 lemon
1/2 bunch of kale (bunch up kale to avoid getting caught in juicer)
1 green apple

BERRI-BLAST

Hand full of the following
blueberries, strawberries, blackberries, cranberries, raspberries


All the above are delicious and you can drink them anytime of the day.  I usually like to start my day out with a juice mix and ends it with a juice mix.  I have been juicing for a month now and really see a difference in my skin, hydration and digestive system.  Play around with your fruits & juices to see what you like!  For instance, I LOVE cucumbers in a salad or even alone with avocado but in the juicer . . . . YUCKIE!!  I promise you will love it!  I didn't think that I would continue it and even saved to receipt to my juicer  :)  The first drink I ever tried I just stared at it for a good 10-15 minutes hahahahah!!  I needed to prepare myself then I took a sip and just LOVED IT and have been doing it ever since.  Once you get the hang of it post your favorite recipes on HERE to share with others!!!!  HAVE FUN XOXOXOX



Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Introduction

 TheCUBBYskinnygirl.com 

Hello Gov-nah!

Hi all!!!! So TheCUBBYskinnygirl.com is all about being a skinny girl trapped in a chubby girls body . . . . I KNOW!!  It sounds awful but at one point in my life I was considered "skinny" by society standards.  OHHHHH society standards, aren't they FABULOUS :)  However, even when I was down to 120 lbs, I wasn't healthy OR happy!!!  I would skip meals (or fill my tummy with "fake food"), work out like a mad woman and have my image control my life just so I could fit into a bikini and feel confident.  Well now I believe in KIARA standards . . . like feeling healthy, being comfortable in my own skin, looking in the mirror and having the person staring back at me confident, happy and beautiful.  Im stick of feeling unhealthy, unhappy and miserable in my "chubby" body and for people referring to me as "having such a pretty face" or "big boned" . . . . People my bones aren't BIG lol they are the same size as yours!!!! So refrain, if you could, from saying that to people who are overweight . . . you don't know what that can do to someone's confidence!! 


BEFORE!!  120 LBS
Okay enough with me blabbering away (BLAB BLAB BLAB) . . . . I chose to make this blog to inspire people to make a change . . . . yes CHANGE!!!!!  Like having me get off my butt, go to the gym and move a little.  I am a hairstylist and makeup artist by profession (www.kiaramooneyhmua.com) and if you are one as well, you know how hectic a salon can get sometimes.  But lets face it, everyone is busy & hectic (work, kids, parents, relationships), everyone makes excuses ("well today I have this & that to do" or "tomorrow I will definitely go to the gym") and everyone needs a little bit of ME time . . . so why not change our ways together :)

NOW!!  NOT 120 LBS hahahah

This lovely take on life/attitude happened after a conversation I had with one of my close friends and wardrobe stylist in Boston & NYC, Victoria Vegas.  We were discussing my life (how fun) and where I currently stand.  I has just lost my grandmother this past January, I broke up with my boyfriend of roughly 6 years and I just recently changed salons roughly 6 months ago.  So need I say more where my emotional state was . . . . but don't feel pity for me because 2 out of the 3 situations I CHOSE.  I wanted to have positivity in my life, happiness, control of my future and most of all REDUCE the negativity!!!  Holy mole-y does that SHIT spread like wild fire!!! Victoria's take was "Listen Kiara", she says that a lot ;) "Listen Kiara, I am soo0o0o0o happy for you!  Girl you are ready to start your new life!!!  You have so much going for you in your career, you are newly single and now it's your time to focus on YOU!!  Listen you don't eat meat . . . you eat healthy you just need to get your butt to the gym more often and eat on a regular schedule."  She's 100% correct . . . it's not rocket science but it makes complete sense!

So, once again, this blog will be about my journey and yours too!  I want everyone to post comments, send me their accomplishment & setbacks (but how they learned from it), their aspirations, their life journey.  We are all humans, it's okay to mess up but its what we do with the information that we acquire at the moment that counts.  CHANGE!  That is key here; mentally, physically & spiritually <3